How To Surprise Her With A Ring She’ll Love

Weddings are all about fantasy, and part one of that picture-perfect love story is the proposal, obvi. Now, we all high-key love a surprise, but it can be tricky to pick a ring your prospective partner will want to wear till death do you part.

So how do you know what they’ll adore and what they’ll abhor? It might just be easier than you think. After all, the clues are all around you. So here’s our little guide to help you put them all together and sleuth your way to the perfect sparkle.

Does She Love A Surprise?

Before you jump head first into stealth mode, there’s one question you should def be asking yourself. Does she like surprises? If that's a big NO, you may want to skip to the next section. But if she’s a hopeless romantic, there’s a good chance she’ll want to be swept right off her feet.

Chances are if she wants you to surprise her, she’s been dropping hints here and there. If you’re paying attention, you’ll probably catch the signs, discrete or not so much. Trust us, they’re there.

Things to listen for are hints on how or where she wants a proposal. What kind of ring she wants. Places she thinks are romantic.

If you haven’t picked up on the prompts, there are definitely some workarounds we can work out. If you know her bestie can keep a secret, now is the time to enlist her help. You can also peep her Pinterest and start making a list of her fav places.

Chances are she’s dropped a few hints, but if you may have missed a few signs along the way, we’ve got you covered.

Not So Much

Ok, if she’s not so stoked on surprises, she has definitely been dropping hints about that too. Does she always plan her own parties and tell you exactly what to get her for her birthday? Does she hate it when you buy her clothes?

If so, you may want to wait and shop together. You can absolutely do this before you propose. Or you can propose with a temporary ring, a piece of string. At this point, you probably know what she likes in terms of romance, so go for that.

If she’s really into picking out her own gifts, clothes, furniture, etc., There’s a decent chance she’ll want to pick this too. And don’t worry, deciding on a ring together can be just as romantic as surprising her with one instead.

Buying one together also means you can decide on a budget together, which makes sense if you share accounts or have big future plans. Either way, we’ll help you pick the perfect ring.

In Sync With Style

How does she like to dress? Is she into sleek, modern fashion, or is she more into colors and patterns? Does she dig the flowy romantic vibe, or is she crazy for vintage? These are all clues that’ll point you in the right direction.

Also, take a peek around your house. Do you have a lot of modern furniture, or is it more of a comfy lived-in situation? Does she have any older heritage pieces she simply can’t live without?

While obviously, we don’t know your bride-to-be, with some of those style profiles in mind, we’ve got some suggestions to help you narrow it down.

Majorly Modern

If she’s hot for clean lines and minimalism, she may want the same in jewelry. Cool and clean can be a safe bet for any style, but it’s marvelous on a modern ring. White gold is a great choice, not just because it’s clean, cool, and classic, but because it goes with absolutely everything. What does her jewelry look like? Does she like to wear several pieces at once?

The Charlotte is clean, modern, sleek, and perfect for stacking down the line. Its bezel and hidden halo combo add sparkle and smooth lines. It’s truly understated and iconic.

Simple Sophistication

If she likes clean and classic silhouettes but wears a bit more jewelry, she may favor something boulder. The Liv, specifically with an Emerald, is out here doing all the work. It has a classic look and an extremely elegant vibe. It’s giving dry martini old-school glamor. The cool combo of white gold and step-cut diamonds is undoubtedly a step up from the standard. It stands out and has a uniquely modern feel while remaining a truly timeless piece.

Elegantly Eclectic

Does her style sway more towards eclectic or boho? If she wears a lot of bold statement pieces and maybe loves a floral, The Kristen with a warm yellow gold might be her favorite flavor.

Its smooth lines hint at a natural, almost floral feel, yet the ring is unmistakably modern. And if it’s an immaculate 1, 2, you’re after. The Kristen has its own perfect pair with the chevron wedding band variety. The combo is simply gorgina!

Nature lover

In love with a nature lover? The Twig might be just her vibe. Its got a super romantic feel, and its delicate lines are simply stunning.

The Twig is definitely a unique piece, but it also just so happens to be wildly popular, making it a super safe snag with an out-of-the-box appeal.

How will you know if she’ll love this one? If you’ve got a lot of natural decor, plants, and driftwood, is there moss in your house? If yes, then it’s likely a love. This goes double if she’s a fan of intricate jewelry. This ring is a super delicate and lovely example of romance and nature combined. It’s a bold choice, but even if she doesn’t wear much jewelry, she might fall for a delicate statement piece.

Vintage Vixen

There are many types of vintage and millions of baddie babes who love it. There is just glamor in jewelry that can carry through the decades. If her jewelry has a vintage feel, maybe she’s got some heritage pieces around the house or on her finger, The Jasmine is giving gorgeous, delicate, and timelessness, and we love her for it.

A white gold setting can swing this piece into a more modern look. But the wonderful thing about vintage is you can go with any color, gold. Yellow gold is the most traditional and still a popular choice. But if she’s really into the 1920s, or keeping things classic, rose gold is a sure bet. It’s warm, romantic, and was the choice of the era.

The Strong Simple Type

The Eve is another gorgeous nature-inspired ring. The bamboo band in warm gold exudes a simple strength. It’s a delicate solitaire with a twist.

The look is sophisticated and timeless, and the band plays well with others. But we love how absolutely bold and unique it is all on its own.

While anyone might fall for The Eve, let’s talk niche for a moment. If she loves a retro beachy vibe, she's a total tiki stan and a pinup rockabilly queen; this ring is everything. The same goes for the mid century modern babes. The Eve is all the vintage feels in a subtle, contemporary package. What’s not to love?

Old World Vibes

Ok, now for something completely different. If you’re in love with an antique lover, this one is for you. Maybe you have some wonderful old-world furniture around the house. She’s always saying she loves things that are built to last. The kind of quality you just can’t find anymore.

Yeah, that one. The Elizabeth has some seriously stunning heritage vibes. It’s subtly engraved with a natural nuance and studded with delicate milgrain. It’s an incredibly classic look and will keep looking fabulous forever.

None Of The Above

If you’re not seeing your partner in this post, no worries. There is always that oh-so classic option, the solitaire.

You really can’t go wrong with simple and gorgeous. If she wants something flashy later, she can stack it down the line. But in the meantime, she’s got a lovely way to show off your love. Not to mention a stunning rock on her finger. And if she’s really into keeping it simple, you’re already there. Solitaires like The Kameille are totally timeless and go with everything. Not to mention a bit of hidden sparkle. You really can’t go wrong.

Amature Sleuth Energy

Ok, here’s the deal. Your girl is the only one who knows for sure what she wants. So let her tell you! Here are a few subtle hints you can drop to point you towards the right drip.

• Comment on other women's engagement rings and see what she says
• Find her Pinterest page–did you know you can search for those?
• Listen for clues. She’s probably dropping them all over the place.
• Take her shopping around town and point things out. What does she gravitate towards?

When all else fails, ask her friends. Enlist the bestie to ask around and do some snooping. Chances are she’s already got a file on her favorites on hand. Ours did.

Thanks, I Hate It

So, you’ve done the absolute most, tried your very best, and she’s not in love. No big deal. With our 30-day money-back guarantee, you can simply send it back. No questions asked. Then you can do a little shopping together. You still got to surprise her when you popped the question, and now she gets the ring of her dreams. Win-win.

Ready For The Surprise Party?

Popping the question is an exciting time, and you should feel super stoked about it. Narrowing down her style vibes, doing a little snooping, or asking a friend is a fantastic way to find a ring she’ll absolutely love.

True, no guide will be able to pick the perfect ring for your bride, but we hope we’ve helped you slim the selection. Plus, if she’s not head over heels for the ring, you’ve got a no-worries guarantee. And don’t forget, asking that big Q is the real surprise, so enjoy your moment!